Collaborative divorce and parenting coordination

Two different processes that both sit outside a courtroom. Collaborative divorce settles the whole thing with a trained team. Parenting coordination helps you carry out a plan you already have.

Worth knowing: Collaborative divorce is not mediation. Each person usually keeps their own collaboratively trained lawyer. Parenting coordination powers and reporting duties vary by state, and it is not suitable where the process could compromise a parent or child's safety.

Price checked August 4, 2026

International Academy of Collaborative Professionals

Professional sets the fee

4.1/ 5
Our score
  • Directory
  • Free plan available
  • United States and international

A professional network connecting families with collaboratively trained legal, financial and mental health professionals in a number of countries. The collaborative process is designed to settle everything without going to court.

What you get

  • Professional locator
  • Legal, financial and mental health professionals
  • Local practice groups

Pros

  • Interdisciplinary teams, not just lawyers
  • Designed to stay out of court
  • International coverage

Cons

  • You are paying for a team, so it is not the cheap option
  • Both people have to commit to the process
Price checked August 4, 2026

Parenting coordination, explained

Varies

4/ 5
Our score
  • Nonprofit
  • Free plan available
  • United States, availability varies by court

The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts publishes the standards and consumer information for parenting coordination, a specialised process for families in repeat conflict about carrying out an existing parenting plan.

What you get

  • Professional standards
  • Consumer education
  • Guidance on appointments

Pros

  • Explains when coordination helps and when it does not
  • Sets out the qualifications to look for
  • Points you to local court rosters

Cons

  • Not a booking service, you still have to find a local professional
  • Powers and reporting duties differ by state