Shared expenses and payments

The job here is simple to describe and painful to do by hand: who paid what, what is still owed, and where the receipt is. Watch the transaction fees and whether both parents need to pay.

Worth knowing: These are private apps. None of them is a state child support agency, none of them enforces payment, and a payment record is not a court order. Exports can be useful evidence, but no app can promise a court will accept them.

Price checked August 4, 2026

SupportPay

Free, then $14.99 a month

4.2/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available
  • United States

Expense splitting, bills, receipts, reimbursement requests, one-off and recurring payments, bank or PayPal transfers, plus history, reports and exports.

What you get

  • Expense splitting
  • Receipt storage
  • Recurring payments
  • Reports and exports

Pros

  • Deep expense and reimbursement tracking
  • Bank and PayPal transfers
  • Reports and exports for review

Cons

  • The free tier is limited on expenses, receipts and history
  • More product than a simple split needs
WatchlistPrice checked August 4, 2026

Onward

Free

4.2/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available

Connects to your cards, flags shared child expenses, applies your agreed split percentage, and settles up automatically so nobody has to send the "you owe me" text.

What you get

  • Card linking
  • Automatic expense splitting
  • Auto settle-up
  • Expense reports

Pros

  • Automatic settle-up removes the awkward ask
  • Bank and card linking
  • Clear audit trail of shared costs

Cons

  • Requires both parents to link accounts
  • US banks only
  • Limited outside expense tracking
Price checked August 4, 2026

CoParent Calendar

Free, Plus $89 a year

4.8/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available

CoParent Calendar includes shared expense tracking alongside the family calendar, so costs sit next to the schedule they relate to. Both parents can log what has been spent, keep a record of receipts and see the running picture without swapping screenshots or spreadsheets. It runs in a browser and through iPhone and Android apps.

What you get

  • AI schedule builder
  • Custody schedule builder
  • Same day exchanges for short handovers
  • Court friendly documents you can print
  • Shared colour coded calendar

+ 12 more features

Pros

  • AI schedule builder sets up a full routine in minutes
  • Court friendly documents you can print when you need a paper record
  • Same day exchanges cover short few hour handovers, not just overnights

Cons

  • Some of the most useful tools sit behind the Plus plan
  • AI suggestions should support your judgement, not replace it or professional advice
  • Families needing specialist legal evidence workflows may still want a more court focused product
+ 4 more in the full review
Price checked August 4, 2026

SupportPay

Free

4/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available

Tracks court-ordered child support alongside ad-hoc shared expenses, stores receipts against each item, and produces reports you can hand to a lawyer or the court.

What you get

  • Support order tracking
  • Expense sharing
  • Receipt storage
  • Payment processing
  • Reports

Pros

  • Handles formal support orders, not just casual splits
  • Receipt storage against every expense
  • Court-ready reports

Cons

  • Interface feels dated
  • Payment processing fees
  • Setup takes real effort
Price checked August 4, 2026

DComply

Free, then $2.99 a month

4/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available
  • United States

Bills, receipt uploads, child support and recurring payment records, disputes, balances, exports and ACH payments on the higher tier.

What you get

  • Bills and receipts
  • Balances
  • Disputes
  • ACH transfers

Pros

  • Very low monthly cost
  • Disputes and balances built in
  • ACH payments on the higher tier

Cons

  • Lighter on communication features than the full suites
  • Free tier is genuinely limited
Price checked August 4, 2026

Splitwise

Free

3.6/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • Free plan available

Not built for co-parenting, but it is free, both parents probably already have it, and it tracks who owes what without a subscription argument.

What you get

  • Shared expense tracking
  • Balance settlement
  • Group and one-to-one splits

Pros

  • Free and already familiar
  • Zero onboarding resistance
  • Works internationally

Cons

  • No receipts against court standards
  • No child-support logic
  • Not designed for family law use
Price checked August 4, 2026

AppClose

About $5.99 a month

4/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • From About $5.99 a month
  • United States

Expense categories, receipt attachments, reimbursement requests and payments through ipayou, sitting inside a wider platform with messaging, calls, schedules and exports.

What you get

  • Expense categories
  • Receipts
  • Reimbursement requests
  • ipayou payments

Pros

  • Money and messaging in one place
  • Low effective monthly cost when prepaid
  • Exports of transaction history

Cons

  • Prepaid two-year commitment
  • Payment terms are separate from the subscription
Price checked August 4, 2026

TalkingParents Accountable Payments

From about $7 a month

4.1/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • From From about $7 a month
  • United States

Payment requests, transfers, recurring payments and time-stamped, searchable payment activity, alongside recorded messaging and calls.

What you get

  • Payment requests
  • Transfers
  • Recurring payments
  • Searchable activity

Pros

  • Payment history sits next to the message record
  • Bank details stay private between parents
  • Recurring payments supported

Cons

  • Transaction fees on every transfer
  • Standard transfers can take five to seven business days
Price checked August 4, 2026

OurFamilyWizard payments

Subscription based

4/ 5
Our score
  • App or software
  • From Subscription based
  • United States

Expense Log, reimbursement requests, balances, bank transfers and payment records inside OurFamilyWizard, with professional access for lawyers and coordinators.

What you get

  • Expense Log
  • Reimbursement requests
  • Bank transfers
  • Payment records

Pros

  • No startup fee and no recipient fee
  • Expense log and reimbursements integrated with the calendar
  • Professional access for lawyers

Cons

  • Sender charges depend on package, add-ons and product version
  • Returned payments can cost $25