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Why “Why Didn’t She Leave?” Is the Wrong Question: A Divorce Attorney’s Perspective on Domestic Violence

Published Jul 30, 2026 by Liz Felt Wakeman, at Divorced Girl Smiling

Why “Why Didn’t She Leave?” Is the Wrong Question: A Divorce Attorney’s Perspective on Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is one of the most heartbreaking and difficult realities I encounter as a divorce attorney. Recently, a tragic case in the Chicago area deeply affected me: a woman was murdered by her boyfriend after prior reports of domestic violence had already been made. She had called the police before.

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